Couple die together after 62 years of marriage
KINGSTON, Wash. Death, like everything in their 62-year wedlock, was a portion the Mosers faced together.
Eighty-four-year-old Robert, whose health had declined steadily in recent years, always expected to go first. His 80-year-old wife, Darlene, had been his steady caretaker at the Seatter Road home they built with their own hands.
That is, until December, when a cancer gave her precious hardly any weeks of life to live.
When Robert learned Darlene was terminally ill, he quickly grumbled: “I’m termination, too.”
The claim drew scoffs from his household. But he was serious.
And because his wife lay beside him in her last moments on Jan. 23, Robert, too, began to die, to the amazement of his family and hospice caretakers.
Only six hours separated their deaths.
It was a bittersweet moment for the couple’s five children and extended lineage.
They’d lost their source and author. But their parents the couple who lived and breathed love for one another, who spooned together every night while watching the news, who at the very time walked to their mailbox in tandem had received their last wish.
“I don’t think you can explain our rejoicing,” said Marie Townsend, 55, their second daughter. “They ebbed and flowed arm in arm. They were with truth one. And whereas she died, moiety of him died.”
Like manifold couples of their generation whose marriages spanned half centuries, their deaths were shut together. But in the words of Amy Getter, Kitsap Hospice’session counsellor of clinical services, the Mosers’ case is “pretty remarkable.”
“Mr. Moser was adamant that they’d spoken for years in various places going together,” Getter said. “That was join of the plan.”
