Mercer Island teen opts for charity at his bar mitzvah
Earlier this year, Rebecca Fox-Dewhurst and her son, Ben Dewhurst, were perusing invitations for his coming bar mitzvah when Ben noticed some in individual. On the front were the image of a earth and a cite from the Talmud: “Whoever saves a single time from birth to death,” it read, “is as if one saves the entire terraqueous globe.”
Before spun out, Ben
Now, with his celebration today, Ben not only will acknowledge his change into adulthood but the actions of those who, in one of account’s darkest periods, helped Jews survive persecution.
The invitation that broadened Ben’s purpose touted the Jewish Foundation for the Righteous (JFR), a 22-year-old New York-based direction offering financial support to non-Jews who risked their lives to save Jews during World War II.
Through its bar/bat mitzvah program, the JFR encourages boys and girls to incorporate the Jewish commitments to tzedakah, or charity, and hakarat hatov, the seeking out and recognition of worth, into their experience. Children cull to pair with one of the 100 or so rescuers profiled on the JFR Web site, typically honoring that rescuer’s deeds during their celebrations.
Ultimately, they give to the foundation, which suggests a donation of $5 per invitation mailed. In Ben’s case, that would be about $500. “Ben suitable felt that this invitation did which he wanted to do with his bar mitzvah,” Fox-Dewhurst said. “He related, ‘That is in the way that incredibly cool, Mom.’ “
The JFR every one month sends money to nearly 1,200 verified rescuers in 26 countries. The greatest numbers are in Poland, Ukraine, Belarus and Hungary; 17 are in the U.S. Most are Catholic, more Muslim, and their stories are verified by Jerusalem’s Yad Vashem, a 55-year-old organization that documents the history of Jews during the Holocaust and those who helped save them.
Ben, a seventh-grader at Mercer Island’s Islander Middle School, scrolled through the dozens of JFR’s rescuer anecdotes and an hour later came to his parents with one that had stuck out to him
“She helped a kid about my age,” he said. “She and her house took her dwelling. They even moved and went to a lot of trouble to help.”
Maksimova’s parents found Nusia, a 10-year-old Jewish miss impenitent on the street. The family kept her in hiding, at times under the floorboards of their home, until the war ended. At age 13, Nusia was reunited with her parents. Now living in Israel, she still corresponds with Maksimova, who is in her 90s and has since relocated to Russia.
Like Maksimova, many surviving rescuers are at this time aged and struggling, perhaps coping through the aftermath of communism’session fall in Eastern Europe.
“The elderly are not running around through fur coats and driving Mercedeses,” said JFR Executive Director Stanlee Stahl. “The exemplar is to stipulate additional funds so they can live out the remainder of their years in dignity.”
