The Mystery Man on the Mantle (Dear Margo)

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DEAR WON: I have only two guesses: the mystery mankind was a dear friend who was killed in combat, or they were gay lovers. If your sex life is satisfactory, then I suspect you have power to eliminate undivided of these possibilities. Also, a matrimonial man who wishes to be married does not display pictures of a staminate lover. My leading thought was: Don't let it be so weighty to detect out. But then I put myself in your shoes and realized that several pictures of a man I knew nothing about on my mantle would make me a little crazy, also. I would suggest you make an appointment with a psychiatrist who deals with the military (perhaps ask a nearby VA hospital for a referral) and work this out with someone familiar with these kinds of situations. There is the possibility that your husband feels responsible on the side of, and on that account guilty hind part before, this man's death. (I have a strong hunch the man is not alive.) Again, a military shrink can give you own guidance — and he may suggest your husband subject of discourse to someone, as well.

— MARGO, CLARIFYINGLY

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DEAR MARGO: Recently, my husband and I took a mutual dear companion public to supper for her birthday. We told her to strike at the locate, and she selected one since she liked their cheesecake. When we were seated, she asked the waitress what they did for birthdays. The waitress told her they served chocolate cake. Our friend proceeded to tell the waitress that she did not like chocolate cake and asked if she could have cheesecake. The waitress said she wished they could offer cheesecake on birthdays yet the manager limited it to chocolate become firm. Our confidant asked to address to the manager. After the waitress left, I told our friend we would be merry to purchase her a slice of cheesecake. The manager came to the table and she proceeded to wrangle with him to get the cheesecake. I was so embarrassed I just looked down at my menu. Our intimate seemed quite pleased when the manager relented. I found her behavior obnoxious and do not default to go to a chop-house with her ever again. I be able to't see why she felt the need to "score" a cheesecake.

— APPALLED

DEAR AP: Your friend's behavior suggests she gets her jollies from small battles and petty victories. Of course it was rude and pushy and not at altogether considerate of you and your husband as the hosts. It is interesting that in gaining a piece of cheesecake she ostensibly depraved two friends.

— MARGO, FROWNINGLY

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Georgia: In ’state of war’ over South Ossetia

OUTSIDE TSKHINVALI, Georgia Russia and small, U.S.-allied Georgia headed toward a wider war Saturday as Russian tanks rumbled into the contested province of South Ossetia and Russian aircraft bombed a Georgian town, escalating a conflict that already has left hundreds dead.

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Georgia’s Foreign Ministry said the country was “in a explain of war” and accused Russia of beginning a “massive military aggression.” The Georgian parliament approved a state of martial ordinance, mobilizing reservists and ordering regulation authorities to work round-the-clock.

Russian President Dmitry Medvedev said that Moscow sent troops into South Ossetia to force Georgia into a cease-fire and prevent Georgia from retaking control of its breakaway region rear it launched a major offensive there overnight Friday.

In a meeting with refugees, Prime Minister Vladimir Putin characterized Georgia’s actions as “consummate genocide,” according to his office’s Web site. Putin also said Georgia had effectively lost the right to rule the breakaway province - an indication Moscow could exist preparing to fulfill South Ossetians’ wish to be absorbed into Russia.

The risk of the conflict setting off a wider war in like manner increased Saturday when Russian-supported separatists in another breakaway region, Abkhazia, also targeted Georgian military force by launching air and artillery strikes to drive them out.

President Bush called for any end to the Russian bombings and an instant halt to the violence.

“The attacks are occurring in regions of Georgia very much from the zone of conflict in South Ossetia. They mark a dangerous escalation in the crisis,” Bush said in a statement to reporters while attending the Olympic Games in Beijing.

Georgia President Mikhail Saakashvili called it an “unprovoked brutal Russian invasion.”

“This is about annihilation of a representative government upon their borders,” Saakashvili told the British Broadcasting Corp. “We on our confess cannot fight with Russia. We want immediate cease-fire, immediate pause of warfare, decomposition of Russia and Georgia and international mediation.”

At a interview of the U.N. Security Council Saturday, the third part in three days on the issue, Russia refused to agree to a cease-fire or a diplomatic agreement. The stir ensured that the fighting with Georgia would keep spilling into other regions such as Abkhazia’s Kodori Ridge, where 15 U.N. military observers were told to evacuate.

“A ceasefire would not be a solution. The fighting is mute going on. The Georgian forces are continuing to be on the South Ossetian territory,” Russian Ambassador Vitaly Churkin declared.

U.N. Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon urged “completely parties to without put off end hostilities and to engage, without delay, in negotiations to achieve a peaceful colony,” his office related in a statement late Saturday.

Carlos Silva calls out teammates

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The wall of silence that has so often surrounded happenings inside the Mariners’ clubhouse was finally shattered on Friday night by the frustrated noise of Carlos Silva.

His anger obvious, new opposite a listless, 5-3 loss to the Tampa Bay Rays, the pitcher more or smaller accused some teammates of mailing it in and trying to blotter their statistics. Silva said the selfish play of some Mariners lately has been making the entire starting rotation look bad, and he’s had sufficiency.

“I dress in’t have regard if we are 40 games behind, we should have played better than this,” he reported. “For me, every game is important. For me, if we are where we are right now, we should take it one game at a time and gambol single in kind day at a time. Thinking, ‘We’ve got to win this game.’ And when the day is over, ‘We’ve got to win the next one.’ “

Mariners starter Felix Hernandez was standing directly to Silva’s right in a near-empty clubhouse, smiling as the pitcher — nicknamed “The Chief” — lashed out at unnamed teammates. Jarrod Washburn was off a small in number feet to his left listening to Silva on the contrary not saying anything.

“Maybe half of the team wants to do the with most propriety they can,” Silva said. “Take the starting rotation … every time we cross that line, we want to do our best. No matter how various games we are behind. But maybe half of the team doesn’t have that mentality. They are only thinking of finishing strong. And to put up their numbers. That’s great, but that affects us. As a team, that doesn’t work out.”

Silva insisted he wasn’t referring strictly to Friday night’s outing, whereas four runs by Tampa Bay in the third inning more or less decided the game. Silva had a 2-1 lead, courtesy of a two-run homer from Wladimir Balentien off Rays starter James Shields, then things came undone.

Silva yielded three straight singles that brought in a tying perform and, about a overturn household by Ichiro allowed both runners to move up a base, push to action men on second and third part part with one out. An ensuing grounder by Carl Crawford was snagged by shortstop Yuniesky Betancourt, who held the runners but then promptly heaved his throw superior the first baseman’s govern.

Two runs scored on the Betancourt error — forward his Bobblehead Night, not any less — one of them unearned.

Jeff Clement doubled in the fifth and later scored on an infield single by dint of. Bryan LaHair. But Seattle managed lawful three more hits the rest of the way.

Silva, who lasted six-plus innings, said his sinker worked suitably outer of that human being frame. But he indisputable to speak out, he said, because he has seen too much selfishness from the team — strange to say when it’s winning games.

“Maybe Chief has to turn out and grab somebody from his neck and throw him into the wall and something’s going to change,” he said, speaking of himself. “I’m to a high degree close to doing that, so write that down.”

But Silva, who had hinted at clubhouse problems back in May, said he had been reluctant to confront teammates so directly as he would be perceived in the same proportion that selfish and casting blame for his losing record. He had done so in Minnesota in the past, he added, and it did not go over sufficiently.

Some players have mentioned similar gripes in private during the series of the gratify. But Silva is the first to express those sentiments.

“Instead of moving over a courier, they want to get a base hit as of their numbers,” Silva said. “Instead of maybe looking for a ground ball, they want to strike him out because of the verse.”

He later added: “It’s tough, man. It’s tough, because you not ever penury to be in this [last-place] position. Because, especially for us, as a pitcher, it’s going to kill you. Especially as a starting pitcher, that’s going to regard you for a like reason much.”

Mariners manager Jim Riggleman, speaking before Silva’s outbreak, also seemed frustrated with how little opposition his team mounted after the early innings.

Riggleman said none one feels worse than Betancourt about the error and that he would “have jumped distant from a building at that point” if it could be undone. But when asked about the two-hit nights by youngsters Balentien and Jeff Clement, and the RBI by LaHair, the manager shrugged them off.

“We’re trying to win the game,” he said. “We’re not going to subsist happy with a couple of good performances in the lineup.”

Riggleman had high commendation with respect to the way Silva has battled through problems with his sinker all year and gutted his way through games.

“The way he gets later than it is the passage we want everyone to cheat it,” he said.

Notes

Ryan Rowland-Smith is expected to be called up from Class AAA to start this afternoon in place of Miguel Batista, demoted to the bullpen.

Jarrod Washburn cleared waivers and can now be traded exclusively of fear of a claim to block a move.

Ichiro extended his hitting streak to 14 games with a single in the fifth.

Shannon Drayer has been relieved of her duties by dint of. KOMO 1000 as antidote to the remainder of the season. The network has chosen to scale back coverage of the team after losing broadcast rights to KIRO, what one. takes over coverage next season.

For the record

W-L W PCT
45-71 .388

Streak: L1

Home: 24-36

Road: 21-35

vs. AL West: 13-19

vs. L.A.: 3-6

vs. Oakland: 4-5

vs. Texas: 6-8

vs. AL East: 13-26

vs. AL Cent.: 10-17

vs. NL: 9-9

vs. LHP: 12-22

vs. RHP: 33-49

Day: 13-24

Night: 32-47

One-run: 13-22

Extra public-house.: 2-6

Home attendance

Friday’s crowd: 30,220

Season total: 1,759,343

Biggest rabble: 46,334 (March 31)

Smallest crowd: 15,818 (May 6)

Average (60 dates): 29,322

2007 average (60 dates): 32,716

Comedian and actor Bernie Mac dies at 50 (Reuters)

LOS ANGELES/CHICAGO, Aug 9 (Reuters Life!) - Comedian and actor Bernie Mac, who starred in one of U.S. TV's small in number black sitcoms and appeared in the "Ocean's 11" movies, died in Chicago on Saturday after a curve with pneumonia. He was 50.

Russia, Georgia exchange fire as conflict escalates (AFP)

TBILISI (AFP) - Russia and Georgia were locked Sunday in an escalating desperately endeavor. \ over South Ossetia with Tbilisi accusing Moscow of pursuing a policy of "annihilation" as it bombed cities over the country.

Zimbabwe deal possible Sunday: ruling party (Reuters)

HARARE (Reuters) - Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe could sign a power-sharing deal on Sunday that names hostility leader Morgan Tsvangirai as prime minister, a senior ruling party official said on Saturday.